Advice on dating an older boy
You need to show her you’re mature and not some school boy just looking for a quick sexual experience to run and tell your friends about. You need to be able to hold your end of a conversation.
You don’t need to tell her you’re older than your years, but you do need to act like a man. Yes, she wants you to tell her how hot she is, but she also wants to talk to you over dinner, during a walk, or lying in bed after you’ve made love.
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( And yes, we've been addressing the low esteem for years.)She has no experience with dating. I say I could get behind that better if he would stop commenting on her physical beauty and if she would stop gushing. When she saw him I kept my cell phone on and when they were alone for the first time and he was pressuring her for sex, she called me and I picked her up immediately. I think it's a matter of what you are comfortable with and what she wants too.
Even if she’s attracted to you, most older women will feel some guilt about your age.
Ignore it and move forward as if she’s giving you the green light. If she really wants you to stop pursuing her, she will not be shy about it.
When I was 23, my friend taught me one of life’s greatest lessons: Older women make decisions fast.
It was this that led to my first experience with an older woman.