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For the ordination of a priest, while a gift of a stole is absolutely appropriate, be careful to find out whether the recipient has acquired all his or her stoles while a deacon.
Do your homework: check with the closest family members and with the parishes involved in the person’s life before going ahead on your own.
Often, the whole congregation also says or sings a prayer that the Holy Spirit will come upon you.
As well, in most jurisdictions other priests also place their hands on your head at the moment of ordination.
Let me tell you about the practice in my own diocese (the Diocese of Rupert’s Land, in Manitoba, Canada), because I believe it is fairly typical of Anglican practice in other parts of the world.
In this diocese, potential candidates for ordination must be active in an Anglican parish, and before they are even considered for ordination, they must be recommended by a group of that parish’s active leaders.
One of the most famous stories in the Bible tells of the “call” of the prophet Samuel.
The young boy, sleeping in a religious shrine, hears someone calling his name.
Will it be local night classes and individual mentorship?
This is only the beginning of a careful screening process.
The bishop has a team of advisers who will meet with potential candidates and explore each candidate’s spiritual journey, his or her prayer life and sense of vocation.
Then, make an appointment to see the bishop of your diocese, and may the Lord bless you in your journey. Gifts directly associated with ordination are most commonly given, but generic gifts are quite suitable as well.
Gifts directly associated with ordination: The most common and suitable gift for an ordinand, particularly someone being ordained deacon, is a stole.