Dating insecure guy
This is difficult to defend against, because after all, you are a man.
We’re always checking women out, but unless you’re a complete douche, you’re probably not drooling with your eyes popping out of your head, and that’s basically what she’s accusing you of.
She wants to be the only person in your life, so she methodically attempts to alienate you from everyone you care about.
This is just an attempt to control the relationship, and by extension, you.
At least in all the men I’ve dated, more than half of them were insecure. What’s more surprising is that I’m not the only one who’s had to deal with insecure men.
Almost every woman I know has experienced her share of insecure men.
Like I mentioned, it’s flattering when someone thinks you’re the shit, but don’t believe the hype. Most of us can tell when we’re being flirted with, but an insecure woman assumes every conversation you have with someone of the opposite sex is going to lead to you dumping her for an upgrade, so she always swoops in to intervene.
A little is fine and perfectly normal, but you should be able to tell when she’s moving into bunny-boiler territory.
Money and possessions are quantitative things that insecure people can point to as proof that they’re doing well in life.
She’s making all the decisions in an effort to limit your options.
We all want to feel needed by our partners, but we also want some degree of independence. When she’s in a relationship, there is no “you” or “I,” only “we” and “us.” Again, we all cut down on time with our buddies when we’re in a relationship, but hers have completely vanished to the point where you’re wondering if they ever even existed in the first place. She likes all the movies you like, reads all the same books and is content to watch you play video games for four hours.
If you suggest some area of improvement and she takes it way too hard, you might just stop bringing up those things altogether and end up miserable.
Insecure people do tend to get abandoned (because they’re annoying as hell), and she has no shortage of stories that end with her getting screwed over.