Dating the asian way
Plenty will have their say and give their opinion, but when it comes time to make the big calls, the man is wearing the big boy boots.This comes with the burden of Asian women are also very feminine in nature (this is why many Western women despise them).Many of the younger Asian women you see shacked up with older men living in your home city are indeed poor, seeking security and often have an ulterior motive.
Far too many people approach dating Asian women as if they are shopping in a catalogue and will find some perfect little housewife.
Yes, the initial game is much the same, but if you are planning to take it to the next level and get involved there are some things you need to be prepared for.
Let’s address the elephant in the room right at the start – a lot of people automatically assume when they see a Western man dating Asian women she is either A) After a green card or visa, or B) Is poor and looking for security/wealth. A lot of the Asian women who come to the West with the boyfriends/husbands do in fact fit this category, but by no means all of them have an agenda.
However, you will quickly find when you come here that Asia has a huge middle class and a rich elite that could hire most Westerners that hold these notions as their house boys, gardeners and personal drivers if they wished.
If you are going to date an Asian woman you are going to have to tolerate these judgments from your friends, family and people you meet every day.