Find his dating profile online
Moving Towards an Exclusive Relationship Assuming the “let’s be exclusive” conversation hasn’t happened, I would recommend you start to slowly but intentionally determine if he feels your relationship is headed in that direction.Where does he see this relationship going, exactly?When my profile was still up I did message him while he was online and made a little joke about him being there one day and his response was that when people make the effort they at least deserve a polite ‘no thank you’…but that’s been a month ago.
If you haven’t agreed to be exclusive, I feel this is the point that the relationship would need to reach before you would be in a position of strength to ask that the profile be removed.
As I discussed above, I would recommend against being aggressive or angry.
Still, these are areas you will need him to define.
In some cases, this could cause what he saw as a healthy, budding relationship to end abruptly.
I’ve had several readers write me they argued with the man they were dating to ask if I thought they had made the right choice.